Senin, 21 Januari 2013

Habits Of Highly Effective


1. Proactive    One of the human habit of doing activities are able to do things that in his own abilities, and therefore the activity of a person is necessary to work hard to achieve something without feeling that everything is not possible for us to accomplish. Proactive divided into 3 types, namely:a. Nature: In a proactive habits, we must hold ourselves to the personality, because it reflects our personality in an action to take right decisions. 

b. Nurture: Once you have the right personality and character, habits are intended to maintain the sense in us would be able to maintain a good personality, such as maintaining the behavior, words or attributes we have, because it all if we can keep it well of course we can live get used to it all. 
c. Choice: "Choice?", An action which is always a need of every human being, because of the choices that define us in choosing rigorous for ourselves, whether it's an option that we cornered on an issue or a simple choice.

2. Think with the end in mind    Is not much in the habit of the choices, where to take decisions or when making decisions on issues that we need to ponder is to think carefully what we decide. Never minded because we desperately do not know what to do. Therefore, by thinking carefully and rationally is the best way to face a problem.


3. First Thing First    An action within is customary to find the best for what we get. Arguably the first to be the best, in terms of things like always menajdi first or put others down to look into that first. But the first of the first that is able to work or do the real thing without being dropped or were dropped only to achieve a success.


4. Win    Occasionally in us should feel proud for the success of our efforts to make it happen, we achieve the victory that is wrong habits of ourselves that we can get after what we do well and trying his best. Not a victory that justifies any means just for fun, because the victory was not lost for the win, but a win win for losing to win.


5. Seek First To Understand then to be Understand    Habits ourselves in berosialisasi in any environment in which we live as well as just the friends, ourselves should be trying to understand the feelings of our friends without them having to always understand ourselves. We need to know the current position we have megerti them and they understand our position, without belonging ego very hard on each one of us so that we can always understand the side of ourselves to our friends and we did the opposite way. 

6. Synergy    The process of mutual support between the two parties can produce positive habits so that progress can be achieved. From word how we interpret other people can trust each other and strive to achieve a goal that means in ourselves without each other to prioritize the best, but work together for the mutual benefit of positive things.

7. Sharpen the Saw    Adjusting to the right, that we are in the habit of doing something with great care so that it is something that can make ourselves in a proper state for the actions and ways of thinking that are not in a hurry to put our position is the most appropriate of these actions.

Ways Of Achieving Our Wishes

1. PrayIn this life we ​​are created as human beings are always grateful for what it is relentless to the Almighty God with a religion or belief that we have. Once we have held fast to the belief that we have this, we can certainly say it through worship and pray. In worship performed 5 times a day, accompanied by the prayer that is what we want or we have achieved is not separated from a sincere and meaningful requests directly to God, because with a prayer that we express clearly that we want or we can accomplish for God hear our sincerity in praying. For example: My God wanted me as a student can graduate from private colleges with courses I take.


2. Confidence (Sure)After we prayed earnestly to God, we must dare to believe in ourselves that what we ask and what we want we must believe that God will always hear our prayers for we believe that with prayer we have been teaching God no ka tone vain. Because the core of our faith is to believe that throughout this earth God has the best plan for us as long as we always worship and pray. For example: Lord I believe I can take this course to my ability and you are always helped relieve the burdens during my live.



3. Visualization (Look and Feel)When worship and prayer have full confidence in ourselves until now, that we can see is something more real to us and we can feel with our inner eyes that after what we want or we achieve with sinful ' a proven God sees that we are trying in earnest on what date. Therefore pray with us and were sure that we could be able to feel it gradually. For example: Dear God thank you until now precisely in the 7th semester, I still try to be able to do the final stage to take the 8th semester final project or thesis later with the achievement of considerable value. Thank God I was able to get through the difficult times in my lecture this time.


4. Feel the happiness or enjoymentIf prayed in worship with full confident before, then God hears prayers and see the effort that we do. Surely God did not let our efforts for granted, will remain God always helps and prayer forms that create a reality that we experience. As long as it is achieved, and we can see and feel it, surely we as humans feel the happiness that was so very unexpected because we can conclude that in this world nothing is impossible as long as we pray we achieve fully confident and do your best for us it will be happy in this life. For example: My God this day I am so very glad that thou hast heard my prayer to gain the knowledge, values ​​and best friends in college taking ± 4 this year so that I and all my friends can be passed along to the end of this struggle.



5. Create FacilityIn the form of prayer that we want or do we accomplish and God has given it to us. Of course we can better utilize the positive direction for what God has given to create a means widespread. In creating the tool we make is a mere idea or value that God has given because it is good we can create something new from our previous request to God for others who simply we do for charity. For example: Dear God thank you after a course of 4 years, I can pass it along relatives and Parents who always prays my right, in the direction I want to take advantage by creating facilities such as open learning computer courses suit my skills , especially in people with less knowledge about the world of technology.